Transition

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Life is not a one-way smooth journey, it cannot be life without going through changes; its ups and downs, the times of turbulence, and those of rare respite in between. Change; is inevitable and with it arrives a string of problems. And problems, those that we need to face every day, challenges the limit we have set for ourselves that invisible line we believe we cannot rise from, for now.

There is always, always the pursuit of something that is just next on the horizon, that complements our belief of inadequacy; the inability to be outspoken, the inability to perform as others do, and it is natural to have such thoughts, such moments of frustration, after all, we are still learning about ourselves; our mind, our relationships and all the chaotic part of us which we had gone through and will do so, on., And that pursuit is what makes us unique, different from each other, though in the surface, our intention seems same; to have a lot of money, prestige, a good relationship, an upward career and such. But eventually, there comes a time of epiphany when looking back you realize that you were mistaken about what you truly wanted. 

That moment is the turning point of transition, a change, which can be complete or just a small part of us, still, it is a change that redefines life, the journey we have come so far. Then we face the problem of an identity crisis, the problem of this and that but with a resolute heart, we go through that time to reach a fulfilled life. It is the realization of our mortality, the limited time and energy we do have in the grasp that beats us to make that change, that is the transition most memorable and worth making mistakes and hardships that definitely purses us, still, they are what makes this long journey bearable, despite constant loneliness and inability to control the fate, the destiny we have or we make as we go on.