The six steps to be awesome

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Everyone is awesome. In one way or the another, they are, but... most just don't know it. And today, I would like you to know this; you are awesome. At least read these six-step-by-step ways I have come up with to discover the awesomeness you have within yourselves:

1. Identify

First and foremost, you need to know what you are awesome about. Is it the smile of yours that seems to light up your entire being? Is it your voice of yours that seems to vibrate the very air with melodious sweetness? Or is your way of making things out of nothing; those anecdotes or is it your knowledge that rivals the encyclopedia itself? Check them out! There is so much potential in your abilities, it is only that you have not discovered it... you just need to ask your friends and give yourself a moment for some productive retrospection.

2. Feel 

The second step is to feel the awesomeness that you are. Feel it naturally! Feel it with a free mind untangled by the pessimistic thoughts or the past where you once were awkward and uneasy when it came to self-discovery and socialization part of your life. Thus, by being one with the best part of us, we can grow and evolve our mental and then the physical reality that we are.

3. Believe

It is said, that belief can move mountains. And for instance, the very device you are holding be it a smartphone or a laptop it is once considered a dreamers realm of reality, and now it has become yours and mine. So after feeling and being one with awesomeness you need to believe in it. Let it flow in every part of your being and believe! And it will believe in you!

4. Act 

Now the practical part! after you believe it is much easier to act. Walk up to the stranger and give your biggest smile. If you have the fittest body and a good suit,,, suit up bro! and of course for those lovely ladies too! (suit up or wear skirts showing off those long legs aww...) Act as confident as you can. Believe you are awesome and act... And do the magic! 

5. Practice

The act is not the only thing that makes you who you are! It is also the practice of action, again and again, repeated that will lift you up to the near-perfection of awesomeness. No man or woman who is successful has ever stopped practicing the best part of themselves, the factor that they so enjoy most. You may be depressed or down with failures and refusals but yes but you should make the habit of trying again. Approaching handsome lad or lovely lass is always difficult...but if they are single why it will be easier to mingle! 

6. Be yourself
Yep. Awesomeness is all about you! It begins with you and by the end, ends with yourselves. Though the people you have around have an impact on your ability to respond and interact and develop this awesomeness to a different level of awareness..it is always up to you to do all the work... I mean the actual work.  Prepare...your appearance...your verbal ability,, your anecdotes, and your awesomeness comes naturally as natural as the air you breathe. Let go of anxiety, relax go out there and try the charm!

(p.s.: According to barny...For bros who are bored by these steps and want to do some easy fix there are other ways:
1. find a wing-man
2. suit up!        )

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